Every person has a different perception, a different point of view and a different thinking. We can’t force anyone to think the same as us. But we can correct someone and show them the right way.
Right now more of the fights which led to a bad conclusion is due to having different ways of thinking and taking the situation in an inappropriate way and most importantly not understanding.
There are ways of saying the one thing differently. It depends on thoughts, way of tone, way of conveying and also the body language. You are exactly saying the right thing and also thinking about the other person’s point of view but in an improper body language, and a high pitch tone then it’s definitely turned out to be wrong and also not understood by the other person though you are thinking the same as they thought.
Also the same as this happens if you are using low pitch and your body language showing no interest in expressing something. There is the way of talking, way of body language also to express your thing.
Also it is said that perception and reality are the two totally different things. Generally we are not accepting reality but we want to see only what we are thinking. Sometimes we are forcing people to think and understand as we want.
There are times we have to differentiate between realities as sometimes reality is also influenced by a number of ways of perception.
It’s the people organizing and recognizing the things in their way. Their thoughts came from their surroundings, their mind thoughts. Also sometimes it happens that the situation is going right now, we compare it with the past worst situation and give our conclusion based on that. The situation outcome doesn’t need every time to happen the same as it happened.
It is said that when the truth is blurred, our point of view becomes reality and we think according to the same which led to misinformation and create crisis. Our thinking process is based on what we hear, what we analyse and according to that we made a picture of what we saw.
It is surely that we can never control what is going to happen next but we can make sure how to react to it. We can definitely control our actions.
It is not always that what we look matters, sometimes we also need to take in consideration of what they see. Exterior reality is just a layer to hide the interior reality. One might need to get involved in that particular personality. As in today’s life we need to know how to play with the perception of the things as it works quite well sometimes. I really want to say that perception is important but handling is a must.
Your perception of reality is the result of your thoughts about the events going in your life.
Just don’t think about anybody’s thought, anybody’s perception, and anybody’s behaviour. Just “Be you” and “LOVE YOURSELF”.